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marjean
True Blue Farmgirl

3756 Posts

Marsha
Deltona FL
USA
3756 Posts

Posted - Nov 21 2018 :  10:37:21 AM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Well this month has been a series of shocks.
I received a message on FB about a friendship I developed with a woman on my Etsy team years ago. I helped her through her Mother's passing of cancer.

The message just said she passed away over the weekend. Who sends messages of a death on FB?

Then I received a message from one of my siblings that my Father was in the hospital on life support and I needed to sign a paper to take him off the ventilator.

I didn't have much to do with my Dad or siblings. Just a very painful past experience. So, to be needed at his death was very unsettling.

He was taken off the life support on Sunday and is now at peace.

I could really use some uplifting cards and words of comfort.

I did not know how his death would affect me until now. I just want to go on with my life and be at peace again.

Thanks for your kindness.

Farmgirl sister #308
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loribeck
True Blue Farmgirl

110 Posts

Lori
Alvordton 36
USA
110 Posts

Posted - Nov 21 2018 :  6:12:39 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Marjean- I'm sorry for your loss and for all you are going through right now. I will be praying for you during this hard time and sending hugs and warm thoughts your way. God bless you.

Lori Beck
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl

5333 Posts

darlene
Loleta California
USA
5333 Posts

Posted - Nov 21 2018 :  7:37:34 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Oh Marjean, I am so sorry to hear, Death is hard no matter who it is.
You will be in my prayers, You take care of yourself too.

Blessings
darlene

Trust in your faith, not your emotions, when it comes to making life’s decisions.

I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer

Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.

I trust in you Jesus...
FGOTM Nov 2017
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ddmashayekhi
True Blue Farmgirl

4010 Posts

Dawn
Naperville Illinois
USA
4010 Posts

Posted - Nov 21 2018 :  7:46:20 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Hugs to you Marjean. I'm so sorry for your losses. Please know we are all here for you.

Dawn in IL

"I cannot endure to waste anything so precious as autumnal sunshine by staying in the house. So I have spent almost all the daylight hours in the open air." Nathaniel Hawthorne
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craftingram
True Blue Farmgirl

486 Posts

Karin
Nashville In
USA
486 Posts

Posted - Nov 24 2018 :  04:34:43 AM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Marjean, I am so sorry for your losses, and also for the way you were informed. We never know how things are going to affect us until they occur. Sending prayers and hugs and hoping that you will heal in the days to come.

Karin
Sister #2708

Romans 8: 38,39
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Audra Rose
True Blue Farmgirl

915 Posts

Vanessa
Brooksville KY
USA
915 Posts

Posted - Nov 24 2018 :  05:46:39 AM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Marsha, I am so sorry to hear of the sad news that hit you so suddenly. Praying for your peace.

Farmgirl Sister #6754
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Tumbleweed
True Blue Farmgirl

672 Posts

Nancy
Riverside County CA
USA
672 Posts

Posted - Nov 24 2018 :  06:57:06 AM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Hi Marsha
Sending you hugs and prayers.

TW

The fun begins where the sidewalk ends. Shel Silverstein
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Joey
True Blue Farmgirl

1793 Posts

Joey
Gulf Coast FL
USA
1793 Posts

Posted - Nov 24 2018 :  07:22:07 AM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
SO sorry to hear this. I am sorry for your loses. Death and grief are hard. Sending hugs and prayers to you.

Well behaved women rarely make history.
Farmgirl #5554
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HollerGirl56
True Blue Farmgirl

569 Posts

Barbara
Flat Top WV
USA
569 Posts

Posted - Nov 24 2018 :  08:45:37 AM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Marsha---I really do understand what you are going through. I loved my mom so much but she was always mean to me. When she committed suicide in 1997 it really threw me for a loop. I think losing a parent is so hard when we did not get along is because we realize that there is no more hope that things will mend and be OK. Also it makes us think of our own deaths and how close that is. My best friend died of cancer five years ago and I did not get to say a proper good-bye. I talked to her husband as we could not bear to speak of it. My car broke down and I could not travel to see her and she did not answer my letters---hurt me so bad. I did go to the funeral and her husband put me in the front seat by his son as we went to the cemetery. How she hurt me by no response and how my mom hurt me by her suicide. Life is sure hard and people are mean at times. All we can do is do our best and live good kind and caring lives. God bless you and HE will see you through. As you age you will understand there is nothing we can do about certain things. Time hardens your heart a little bit and gives you strength. God bless you---you are in HIS care.

Old Age Ain't No Place For Sissies!------Bette Davis
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Red Tractor Girl
True Blue Farmgirl

3963 Posts

Winnie
Gainesville Fl
USA
3963 Posts

Posted - Nov 25 2018 :  04:52:10 AM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Marsha, I am sorry to hear about the death of your special friend and father all in the same month. Sending prayers of comfort and peace in your heart.

Winnie #3109
Red Tractor Girl
Farm Sister of the Year 2014-2015
FGOTM- October 2018
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Marcy
True Blue Farmgirl

2418 Posts

Marcy
Tiverton Rhode Island
USA
2418 Posts

Posted - Nov 26 2018 :  09:27:19 AM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote

I am so very sorry for your loss. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Please know that you are thought of.

hugs,
Marcy

Farmgirl #170

FGOTM August 2012

Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give...Eleanor Roosevelt


Edited by - Marcy on Nov 26 2018 09:28:09 AM
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windypines
True Blue Farmgirl

2531 Posts

Michele
Bruce Wisconsin
USA
2531 Posts

Posted - Nov 27 2018 :  02:12:00 AM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Sending prayers for this difficult time of life.

Farming in WI

Michele
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levisgrammy
True Blue Farmgirl

6435 Posts

Denise
NJ
USA
6435 Posts

Posted - Nov 27 2018 :  4:36:11 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
So very sorry for the loss of your friend and your father. It is difficult to go through and grieving takes time. Sending you hugs and prayers.

~Denise
Sister #43~1/18/2007

"Home is where we find comfort, security, memories, friendship, hospitality, and above all, family. It is the place that deserves our commitment and loyalty." William J. Bennett

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marjean
True Blue Farmgirl

3756 Posts

Marsha
Deltona FL
USA
3756 Posts

Posted - Dec 04 2018 :  10:09:14 AM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Thank you so much for all of your kind and uplifting words of encouragement. They all mean the world to me.

An extra special Thank You to Winnie and Vanessa for the cards and tea. They were the perfect way to help me get through this rough patch in my life. Keeping you all in my prayers.

Farmgirl sister #308
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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru

4204 Posts

Nicole
Sandy Hook CT
USA
4204 Posts

Posted - Dec 05 2018 :  6:56:32 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Oh Marjean, I am just seeing this. I am so very sorry to hear all you have been through. Hugs, prayers, and warm thoughts to you my farmgirl friend, May 2019 be a better year.

Farmgirl Hugs,
Nicole
Farmgirl Sister #1155
Suburban Farmgirl Blogger
Chapter Leader, CT Simpler Life Sisters
Farmgirl of the Month, Jan. 2013

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marjean
True Blue Farmgirl

3756 Posts

Marsha
Deltona FL
USA
3756 Posts

Posted - Dec 11 2018 :  12:27:50 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Thank you Nicole for your hugs, prayers and warm thoughts. I really appreciate your concern. I am doing better and getting back to my daily routine.

Farmgirl sister #308
Wallets & Travel Accessories, Tea Wallets, and Hankie Envelopes
http://www.marketsofsunshine.online

Card Making Circle of Friends
www.marshajaramillo.stampinup.net
Tea Lover's
www.tealightfultea.net/sweetretreats
FGOM 5/2018
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ceejay48
Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter

13307 Posts

CeeJay (CJ)
Dolores Colorado
USA
13307 Posts

Posted - Dec 11 2018 :  12:57:03 PM  Show Profile  Send ceejay48 a Yahoo! Message  Reply with Quote
Marsha,
I am just now seeing this as well and I'm sorry for being so late in being able to encourage and pray for you. However, I do now send you encouragement and will be praying! Life can throw us for such a loop sometimes!!
HUGS and PRAYERS!
CJ

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marjean
True Blue Farmgirl

3756 Posts

Marsha
Deltona FL
USA
3756 Posts

Posted - Dec 12 2018 :  3:19:16 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Thank you for your encouragement and prayers CJ. It is very much appreciated. You are so right. Life can sure throw us a loop sometimes. More than I like.

Farmgirl sister #308
Wallets & Travel Accessories, Tea Wallets, and Hankie Envelopes
http://www.marketsofsunshine.online

Card Making Circle of Friends
www.marshajaramillo.stampinup.net
Tea Lover's
www.tealightfultea.net/sweetretreats
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